Sunday, 16 December 2012

Looking back at 2012


It’s Christmas again and time to bring you up to date with the news from Williamsland!  David has made an excellent recovery from his two major operations in February and November 2011 and is more mobile now than he has been for a number of years.  As we went into 2012, we thought that our health problems had been solved and we planned to return to Wales in January, but this was not to be … 

In February, after a routine op to remove a polyp, Lesley was diagnosed with early stage endometrial cancer, and two weeks later was admitted to hospital for a total hysterectomy. She was very lucky.  The cancer had not spread and she needed neither radiotherapy nor chemotherapy. She has made a very good recovery.  Since then she has also been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes but Metformin has brought her blood sugar levels down, and by modifying our diet we have both lost weight and are looking to shed more.

We wish you a Merry Christmas
and a Happy New Year

Nadolig Llawen
Blwyddyn Newydd hapus
 
We based ourselves at Linton through all our medical treatments and finally returned to Wales in early May 2012.  We can’t do much work on the house because we haven’t got the necessary funds until we sell the house in Linton, but we have made some progress.  David has completed the insulation and boarding of the loft and installed a proper loft hatch and ladder so we now have more dry but accessible storage. 

Outside, a large area of the garden is still overgrown with brambles which we are gradually clearing (but we have enjoyed eating the blackberries first!)  David has been working on levelling an area to create a base for a large shed which will eventually be his workshop but before that will be used to store all our furniture when we finally clear our Linton house and start our big project here. 

At the top of the garden, there is another big shed which came with the house.  Here we have created a studio - a space where we can both work on our hobbies. When it rains, we play!  David builds model ships and railways. His current projects are an aircraft carrier and a tiny model railway layout constructed inside a briefcase!  Lesley makes cards and crafts with beads. 

We have both made new friends here in Wales through our hobbies.  David has joined a model boat club and a railway modellers' society.  Lesley meets craft friends every week to share ideas, materials and techniques – and a good gossip!

David works three mornings a week as a volunteer at a charity woodwork shop, creating saleable items from recycled wood and working alongside unemployed to help them develop new skills and gain self confidence.  So far this year he has made travel boxes for gun dogs and birds of prey, and a dais for a choir (all bespoke items).  He also designed and made some 3D Christmas trees as table decorations and these have proved very popular at fetes.

Lesley has become involved with the Godre’rgraig Community Association, which works to restore an overgrown park and bring it back into use.  As she’s on the Committee she gets involved in other things too.  She has designed a publicity leaflet for the group, and made nine litres of soup to serve at the Halloween event!  Her main brief is to lead a group researching the history of the park and the people who created it.  She has been given access to the school’s Admission Registers from 1908 – 1918. Transcribing them will be a fascinating project!

Lesley has also started learning the Welsh language, two lessons a week.  It’s a real challenge but she is starting to get her tongue and teeth around the vowels and diphthongs.  However, the mutations are another story!  She has two good tutors and her classmates are very supportive.  We’re a good mix of English incomers and Welsh-born who have never spoken the language.

Other highlights of the year include:

·         The christening of Erin Manford, our godson’s daughter
·         The birth of our great nephew Eli, son of Phil and Becky
·         Visiting Laugharne with Judi and Dave Manford
·         Williams family gathering to welcome Eli
·         “Discovering” Caswell Bay - paddling and beach combing!

We still enjoy our four-legged family. Tiffany, at 16 is still a kitten at heart. She loves the freedom of the outdoors and has created little “nests” around the garden but she enjoys coming indoors to snuggle with us too. We also have our two Belgian Shepherd dogs. Quinn is now 9 and is as energetic as ever.  He loves the big garden and races up and down patrolling his estate! Zoe is 16 and the matriarch of the family.  Like us, she suffers from stiff joints, and her hearing is selective unless we’re filling Tiffany’s food bowl, or sharpening the carving knife. 

We are based in Wales now, but we return to Linton every 5 or 6 weeks to spend time with David’s father, check on the house, and fulfill any medical appointments, as well as catching up with friends.  It has been very difficult, both physically and emotionally, to maintain two homes that are so far apart, and it is a major drain on our finances too. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  We accepted an offer on the Linton house in October and hope to complete the sale in January. We are really looking forward to getting started on our renovation and extension project for this house in the Spring – it’s been a long wait!

We wish you a Merry Christmas
and a Happy New Year

Nadolig Llawen
Blwyddyn Newydd hapus